Thread:Lady Lostris/@comment-4357864-20130520224004/@comment-3026053-20130527002150

If you're asking why you were not chosen, then that was due to a general perception of your tendency to avoid any kind of possible conflict. While it is good to avoid unnecessary conflicts, some conflict are needed in order to get things moving. As such, it was our believe that you would be less inclined to follow your own opinion as opposed to a popular one, so that by jumping the bandwagon, you could avoid any possible conflict of any kind.

My advice in term of improvement on that regard: become more assertive. Sometimes it is just necessary to come into conflict with people when you want to get something done. When you are given a responsibility -like being a "judge" for the Fanon Awards- you need to be able to voice your own opinion based on your own standards, as opposed to hiding behind others and follow their reasoning. As said, avoiding confrontation is not a bad quality on itself, but it is when you'd be in a position with responsibilities.

I hope that cleared some things up for you.